coming where im from

So yea I haven't blogged in like forever ..with all the THANKS going to work! *sarcasm* but recently a best friend of my was decieved and hurt my someone we called a friend and for her a closest friend. We decided we will not talk to this person right now but I can't just cut someone off without letting them know why.she doesn't owe him an explination but I feel I do cuz yes he did hurt me becuz he hurt one of my best friends but he didn't do the act to me so for me to shut him off w/o telling him why I think would be kinda unfair..and yes u guys might say well he wasn't fair to ur friend when he hurt her so why should I be fair with him.. Thing is I don't know why but my parent always told me if something is bothering u then let it out. And no im not gonna say anything to bust out my fren or him but im jus gonna let him know that I've learned of somethings about that I don't approve of or like. But when I do this I hope she understands where im coming from..man I just don't know how to tell to her cuz I don't want her to be mad @ me cuz her friendship means the world to me she's like my friggin sister! Aagghh man I HATE this!